Based on what is thus far known, there is no evidence of a relationship between Petraeus and the woman named today.
Rather, it appears as if Petraeus, while stationed at the Tampa command, became a friend of the family, attending the Gasparilla celebration with both the husband and wife, as reported by the Tampa Bay Times.
This increasingly seems like a personal
matter between Petraeus and Broadwell, who had demonstrated a clear and
persistent interest in the General.
The connection that is being drawn by some to Benghazi seems a rather desperate hold over from the lost election.